I was disappointed at my uncle’s kids, cause they use gadgets a lot. But when I met my other uncle’s kids, I thought the first uncle’s kids are way better. At least they won’t irritate me every once in a while. And then I realized that we went from customizing products to customizing people. Now I know why I hate kids because it’s very hard to customise them. We love people similar to our taste and sensibility. We just hate those who don’t agree with us. Enmity is the basic level of human relations. We only care about ourselves.
The Adjustables
These are the high demand low supply products. They are similar to doormats, allowing everyone to walk on them. Everyone secretly wants a spouse like this. Every parent secretly wants a kid like this. The point is we want the other person to agree with us and also you don’t want any non-agreeable people in your life.
The Authoritative
These are the control freaks. They pretty much don’t have anything to do with their life, so they focus on others, or maybe they have achieved a little success. They want to feel superior to others. Their goal is control over the other people and they will do whatever possible to achieve that goal. They are willing to buy authority if they could afford it. They will lead you the wrong way just to make themselves feel powerful. Be careful with these products. One control freak can destroy your whole life.
Dominant Guide
These are the control freaks with good intentions. They take control over your life because you don’t know, or maybe you are little. This is fine until you are 10 years old. Even then it affects the child. One reason this won’t work is that nobody knows what is good for you better than yourself. There should never be a second person watching over, since the beginning the child must be made independent. The only person who stays with him forever is none other than himself. So he should be made to take the decisions in his life.
The Affordables
These are the most afraid species they have the fear of money. They spend very little, which makes them affordable. They are the perfect spouse for a control freak. They fear being left alone. So they make themselves as affordable as possible. They want to prove to their family members and their parents that they are sacrificing themselves for the family.
The Users
The people you should avoid at any cost. They don’t deserve you they don’t deserve anyone. But, they project themselves as if the world owes them. You can’t easily find the user. They have various shades to confuse you. Sometimes it takes years to know if someone is a user. Don’t worry, I have a solution.
They want your help and when you need them they have reasons to escape. This happening once or twice is fine, but if it happens almost every time you ask for help, you have a user. Cut him/her out. If you have a spouse like this, your life may result in a disaster. Beware of the users.
The Blamers
These are the fools of the modern world. Keep your distance from these ones. You shouldn’t even say “hi”. They are the master at their game which is called the ” Blame Game.” You don’t see a difference between them and a complaint box. They always have an issue with everything. Alliance with these folks may damage your reputation.
The Caring
These are the people everyone needs. They are the best parents and wonderful kids. These people have the most human thing called “Empathy.” They care about their loved once and they show that. These are the ones that look at your stomach before they eat. Losing a caring person is near to death. We just can’t stop loving them. They just make our life. Never lose a caring person, you will regret it.
Fake Caring
Sometimes the control freaks and users may appear as caring. Don’t start believing everything they say and do. Give in some time and their true colours come to light.
The Self-centered
These are either the bad boys or the world changers or maybe the lonely ones. Self-centeredness has many causes. One of the following may be the reason,
- They have Many Goals
These are the self-driven ones that are on their way to moving the world. They are busy chasing their dreams and don’t have time for other people. They only have time for those who are better than them.
- They don’t have anyone to trust
These are the lone wolves. In the past, they may have been cheated on many times hence they lost trust in people. Their hearts have been broken many times in the past, that there is no way to fix it. They may socialize, but they always keep their guards up.
- They want attention
These are the tricky ones. They are fake self-centred people. They behave like they are doing a lot of work and don’t have time. To point out these fake ones check the results. Normally these kinds of people project themselves as achievers but actually, they achieve nothing. They may even say that the world is too bad to not recognize their work.
Conclusion
Finally, to be safe from all kinds of products, just remember one thing. When it comes to trust, trust actions. And when it comes to actions, check the results.